Bite-sized TDD plan across all three codebases for the friend-groups
feature: 4 client->server category packets (renderer composers +
Arcturus handlers), DB persistence (reusing existing
messenger_categories + messenger_friendships.category), server-
authoritative re-push via existing MessengerInit/UpdateFriend
composers, and client store actions + chip-filter UI + manager modal +
per-friend assign control + pure filter helper with tests.